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The
following is a summary of the book "How to make your wife happy
by Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed.
Beautiful
Reception
After
returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you:
- Begin
with a good greeting.
- Start
with Asalamu’alaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuhu and a smile.
Salam is a Sunnah and a Dua for her as well.
- Shake
her hand and leave bad news for later!
Sweet
Speech and Enchanting Invitations
- Choose
words that are positive and avoid negative ones.
- Give
her your attention when you speak of she speaks.
- Speak
with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she
understands.
- Call
her with the nice names that she likes, e.g. my sweet-heart,
honey, saaliha, etc.
Friendliness
and Recreation
- Spend
time talking together.
- Spread
to her goods news.
- Remember
your good memories together.
Games
and Distractions
- Joking
around & having a sense of humour.
- Playing
and competing with each other in sports or whatever.
- Taking
her to watch permissible (Halal) types of entertainment.
- Avoiding
prohibited (Haram) things in your choices of entertainment.
Assistance
in the Household
- Doing
what you as an individual can/like to do that helps out,
especially if she is sick or tired.
- The
most important thing is making it obvious that he appreciates
her hard work.
Consultation
(Shurah)
- Specifically
in family matters.
- Giving
her the feeling that her opinion is important to you.
- Studying
her opinion carefully.
- Be
willing to change an opinion for hers if it is better.
- Thanking
her for helping him with her opinions.
Visiting
Others
- Choosing
well raised people to build relations with. There is a great
reward in visiting relatives and pious people. (Not in wasting
time while visiting!)
- Pay
attention to ensure Islamic manners during visits.
- Not
forcing her to visit whom she does
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