Tips for Starting A New Life After Hajj
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Alaikum Warehmutallah
Dear
Muslim!
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this email finds you in the best of Imaan, health & peace of mind Insha
Allaah.
Today
I compile some articles for our Hajji’s. Insha Allah reading these articles
will motivate them to keep doing Good. Ameen
Remember
me & my late Mother in your Duas always.
Fi
Amaan Allaah
Tips
to Enhance Faith after Hajj
Question
of Fatwa: Dear
scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. How can Muslims enhance their faith after
performing Hajj? Any tips will be very much appreciated. Jazakum Allah khayran.
Content
of Reply: Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa
Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
In
the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All
praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His
Messenger.
Dear
questioner, we would like to thank you for the great confidence you place in us,
and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for
His Sake.
We
should stress that those whom Allah has favored to perform Hajj and `Umrah
should be thankful to Allah (glorified and exalted be He) Who has chosen them
from among His servants to perform these acts of worship, and they should
implore Almighty Allah to accept their good deeds. That is very important, for
it reflects their belief that being so favored by Allah to accomplish the task
of traveling to the Sacred Land to perform Hajj and `Umrah is a favor that
deserves gratitude.
We
also urge the pilgrims, after they return from the Sacred Land, to keep their
minds and souls attached to Allah, remembering Him constantly because Almighty
Allah says, (And when ye have completed your
devotions, then remember Allah as ye remember your fathers or with a more lively
remembrance…) (Al-Baqarah 2: 200)
In
his response to your question, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic
scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states:
Hajj,
as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said in the hadith, purifies
sins and makes a person like a newborn and thus closer to Allah. It is therefore
important for Hajjis to try their best to preserve this pure state as best they
can. Here are a few tips to help them achieve this:
1.
Try to be consistent in dhikr (remembrance
of Allah), for dhikr helps us to come closer to the Lord and repels Satan.
2.
Remain steadfast in performing Salah
(ritual Prayers) and other religious duties.
3.
Read and ponder the Qur'an on a daily
basis.
4.
Keep company with righteous Muslims.
5.
Occupy time in good deeds as much as
possible.
6.
Pray to Allah to make your heart steadfast in obeying Him
in the manner of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) by using the
following du`aa’ (supplication):
Allaahumma
yaa muqalliba al-quloobi thabbit qalbee `alaa ta'atika.
(O
Allah! You are the twister of hearts! Make my heart firm on obedience to You!).
Moreover,
Sheikh Muhammad Iqbal Nadvi, Imam of Calgary Mosque, Alberta, Canada, and Former
Professor at King Saud University, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, states:
We
need to understand that Hajj is a preparation for our mission of Islam because
the pilgrim starts his or her Hajj with repeating the slogan of “labayk,”
which means “I am here to listen and obey.”
So
the Hajj training is supposed to train us to carry this mission of Islam when we
are back. We can remember the hadith that explains the sign of an accepted
Hajj—a Hajj mabroor—that a person after Hajj becomes more caring about the
Hereafter and less interested in the pleasures of this life.
Here,
I can suggest the following tips for enhancing our imaan
(faith) after Hajj:
1.
Keep away from the haram (forbidden)
because after Hajj a person should start a new life that is supposed to be
clean.
2.
Carry the message of Islam by inviting
people to it and showing a good example.
3.
Be regular in performing your daily Prayers
and being committed to the mosque.
4.
Increase your number of good deeds and
ask Allah to accept them.
Allah
Almighty knows best.
Question of
Fatwa: As-Salaamu `Alaykum. Dear
scholars, I have a very important question and I would like you to furnish me
with a proper answer, Insha Allah. As we know now that most people have returned
back home after completing the rituals of Hajj, may Allah Almighty accept it
from all. My question is: What next is required of a person blessed with Hajj
and `Umrah upon returning home?
Content
of Reply:
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu
wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
In
the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and
thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
First of all, we
would like to thank you for the great confidence you have in us, and we implore
Allah to accept our good deeds and to reward us generously, Amen.
No doubt, Hajj
is a golden opportunity to have one’s sins forgiven, one’s soul refined, and
one’s heart filled with iman and tranquility. The one who performs Hajj is
supposed to be a model for others after returning. He or she is to recall
throughout the year the matchless experiences gained in Hajj.
In response to
your question, Dr. Sabri `Abder-Ra’oof, professor of Islamic Comparative
Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar Univ., states:
We should stress
the fact that those whom Allah favored to perform Hajj and `Umrah, should be
thankful to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) Who has chosen them from among
His servants to perform these acts of worship, and they should implore Almighty
Allah to accept their good deeds. That is very important, for it reflects their
belief that being so favored by Allah to accomplish the task of traveling to the
Sacred Land to perform Hajj and `Umrah is a favor that deserves gratitude to
Allah.
We also urge the
pilgrim, after returning from the Sacred Land, to keep his mind and soul
attached to Allah, remembering Him constantly because Almighty Allah says, (And
when ye have completed your devotions, then remember Allah as ye remember your
fathers or with a more lively remembrance…) (Al-Baqarah 2: 200)
The new Hajji
should be very keen to avoid evil and shameful deeds especially after Allah has
obliterated them and forgave all his sins, as a reward of performing Hajj. This
is based on the hadith in which the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
said,
“The
reward of Hajj Mabrur (the one accepted by Allah) is nothing but Paradise.”
He also said,
"(The
performance of) `Umrah is an expiation for the sins committed between it and the
previous one.”
Therefore, it
behooves every Hajji to forward due gratitude to Allah for being chosen to
perform those acts of worship and, at the same time, to beseech Him for
acceptance.
We advice such a
person, upon returning home, to be conscious of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be
He) when performing all what Allah has obligated him to do of the other worships
such as Salah (Prayers), Zakah, Fasting, dutifulness to his parents, visiting
kith and kin, being charitable and benevolent to Allah’s creatures,
experiencing the etiquettes of Islam, taking the morals of the Qur’an as a
model and the like of what the Muslim should do.
The reason for
all what we have said above is that the more Hajj is considered an honor and a
blessing, the more it entails responsibility on which man will be asked
concerning on the Day of Judgment in case he misbehaves after returning from
Hajj. Almighty Allah says,
(Lo!
Allah enjoineth justice and kindness, and giving to kinsfolk, and forbiddeth
lewdness and abomination and wickedness. He exhorteth you in order that ye may
take heed. Fulfill the covenant of Allah when ye have covenanted, and break not
your oaths after the asseveration of them, and after ye have made Allah surety
over you. Lo! Allah knoweth what ye do.) (An-Nahl:
90-91)
The epitome of
this is that this worship (Hajj) is obligated once in lifetime. So, the pilgrim
should take that as a golden opportunity which he will make use of for the rest
of his life, reminiscing about the sacred places and all rituals (of Hajj), for
that will strengthen his faith and help him to obey Allah.
Allah Almighty
knows best.
Of the most
important things that Muslims are to be concerned with after offering any act of
obedience is whether it has been accepted or not. A person's being enabled to
offer an act of obedience is principally a great blessing in itself, but in
order for this blessing to be complete it is to be coupled with a far greater
blessing, that is, acceptance on part of Almighty Allah. This is clearly
apparent in the case of performing Hajj. Pilgrims exert exhausting efforts while
offering the rituals of Hajj; what a loss would it be if their pilgrimage was
not accepted!
When people’s
supposed-to-be good deeds are not accepted, their loss in this world and the
Hereafter is manifest! Being aware that there are many reasons for acts of
obedience being rendered unacceptable, people become increasingly concerned with
knowing the means by which they can get their acts of obedience accepted. Those
who find themselves able to attain these means are to praise Almighty Allah for
this, and earnestly seek to remain steadfast in fulfilling them. On the other
hand, those who have failed to have their deeds accepted are to give priority
from now on to sincerely doing their best to attain the means to do so.
The following
are among the means that may render your acts of obedience acceptable:
Belittle the
deeds that you offer and do not take pride in being able to do them. However
many acts of obedience you may be able to offer, view them always as unequal to
the ample blessings that Almighty Allah bestows on you. You will never be able
to express the gratitude that befits the blessings and bounties Almighty Allah
confers on people, nor will you be able to observe all the duties that you owe
to Almighty Allah. That is why it is a characteristic of pious worshipers to
always belittle their acts of obedience and regard them as nothing, lest they
may admire what they do and take pride in it and thus have their deeds rendered
unacceptable.
In order to
develop this characteristic in yourself, seek to deeply know Almighty Allah,
praise Him Most High for the abundant blessings that He bestows on you, and
always remember the sins that you commit and the shortcomings of your acts.
Contemplate the
words that Almighty Allah directs to His Prophet (peace and blessings be upon
him): [O thou enveloped in thy cloak, arise and
warn! Thy Lord magnify, thy raiment purify, and all abomination shun! Nor
expect, in giving, any increase (for thyself)!] (Al-Mudathir 74:1-6).
Explaining the
last verse, Al-Hassan Al-Basri, an eminent scholar, said that it warns the
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) against regarding what he offered of
acts to Almighty Allah as great and ample.
Always be
concerned about whether the acts that you offer will be accepted or not.
Righteous predecessors, knowing that they would return to their Lord, used to be
very afraid that the good deeds they offered in this world might not be
accepted.
Allah Almighty
says: [And those who give that which they give with
hearts afraid because they are about to return unto their Lord, these race for
the good things, and they shall win them in the race] (Al-Mu'minun 23:60–61).
The Prophet
(peace and blessings be upon him) said that the reference in this verse is to
those pious persons who pray, fast, and give charity, and yet are extremely
afraid that these acts may not be accepted from them.
`Ali (may Allah
be pleased with him) was reported to have said “Be concerned about the
acceptance of a deed more than you are concerned about the deed itself. Do you
not meditate upon Allah's words: [Allah accepteth only from those who are
righteous] (Al-Ma'idah 5:27)?”
Simultaneously,
hope that Almighty Allah accepts your deeds. You should combine in yout heart
both fear and hope. Experiencing only fear in this respect may lead you to
despair of Allah's mercy; while anticipating that Almighty Allah will accept
your deeds without experiencing any fear of the contrary, may lead you to be
overconfident that you can escape Allah's punishment. These are negative and
undesirable qualities for a true believer to have.
In fact,
combining both fear and hope makes the believers modest and increases their
faith and submission to Almighty Allah. The believers' hope here is represented
in their humbly beseeching Almighty Allah to accept their deeds, for it is He
alone Who can render their deeds acceptable. Prophet Ibrahim and his son Prophet
Isma`il (peace and blessings be upon both of them) would pray Almighty Allah to
accept their deeds. This is referred to in Almighty Allah's words: [And when
Abraham and Ishmael were raising the foundations of the House, (Abraham prayed):
Our Lord! Accept from us (this duty). Lo! Thou, only Thou, art the Hearer, the
Knower] (Al-Baqarah 2:127).
Ask Allah for
forgiveness every now and then. However earnest you may be in doing your best in
offering acts of obedience, there will always be something missing, for no one
is perfect. Hence, Almighty Allah directs His worshipers to compensate for this
inevitable shortcoming by always beseeching Him to forgive them after offering
acts of worship. That is why He Most High says after mentioning the rituals of
Hajj [Then pass on at a quick pace from the place
whence it is usual for the multitude so to do, and ask for Allah's forgiveness.
For Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful] (Al-Baqarah 2:199).
Almighty Allah
also ordered Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) to conclude his
life—which was full of acts of worship and striving in His cause—with asking
Him Most High for forgiveness. This is referred to in the following verse: [When
comes the Help of Allah, and Victory, and thou dost see the People enter Allah's
Religion in crowds, celebrate the Praises of thy Lord, and pray for His
Forgiveness: for He is Oft-Returning (in Grace and Mercy)] (An-Nasr 110:1–3).
Seek to offer as
many good deeds as you can. Good deeds are like a tree that needs watering and
care so that it bears fruits. It is a sign of your good deed being accepted that
you offer extra good deeds. In fact, it is a great bounty from Almighty Allah
that He enables a person to offer further good deeds. This is Allah's way of
drawing a person closer to Him Most High.
It benefits the
believers to know some examples set by the Prophet's Companions in this regard,
and to know also the significance and merit of regular observance of good deeds,
as well as the benefits and rewards they may get in this connection.
Examples
of the Companions:
It was reported
that `A’ishah, Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her), would
offer eight rak`ahs of Duha Prayer. She (may Allah be pleased with her) would
say, “(even) if I had been threatened to be killed unless I gave up offering
Duha Prayer, I would never have abandoned it” (Malik; regarded as authentic by
Sheikh Al-Albani).
Abu Hurayrah
(may Allah be pleased with him) reported that at the time of the Fajr Prayer the
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked Bilal, “Tell me of the best
deed you did for which you hope to receive good reward after embracing Islam,
for I heard the sound of your footsteps in front of me in Paradise." Bilal
replied, "I did not do anything worth mentioning except that whenever I
performed ablution during the day or night, I would pray after that ablution as
much as was decreed for me (to pray)" (Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
It was also
reported that `Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the Prophet (peace
and blessings be upon him) came to his house when he and his wife Fatimah had
gone to bed. `Ali said: The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) put his
feet between me and her till I felt the coldness of his feet on my abdomen. He
(peace and blessings be upon him) then taught us what to say on going to bed:
“Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah) thirty-three times, Al-hamdu lillah (Praise
be to Allah) thirty-three times, and Allahu Akbar (Allah is the Greatest)
thirty-four times.” `Ali added, “I have never failed to say so ever
since." Somebody asked him, "Even on the night of the battle of
Siffin?" `Ali answered, “No, even on the night of the Battle of
Siffin" (Al-Hakim). Mind that `Ali did not give up saying this dhikr even
in the midst of battles, let alone peace time.
The
Significance and Merit of Regular Voluntary Acts of Worship:
It is of a
paramount importance for worshipers to keep observing good deeds regularly for
several reasons:
It is a sunnah
of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) also to offer voluntary acts of
obedience regularly. `A'ishah (may Allah be pleased
with her) reported: When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would
offer an act of obedience, he would keep doing it regularly (Muslim).
Regular acts of
obedience are the most beloved acts to Almighty Allah and His Messenger (peace
and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “The
most beloved deed to Almighty Allah is the most constant even though it were
little."
It is desirable
for those who have missed a voluntary act of worship that they offer regularly
to make it up. This asserts the significance of the regular observance of acts
of obedience.
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