Writing in the third century, the Arab poet Mutanabbi describes how a recipient of another's largesse will usually respond with either indebtedness or resentment :
' A generous soul is bought when it receives, a vile one returns good done with disease.'
Your response to another's good toward you determines your nature.
If good in nature, you will respond with indebtedness and respect; if vile, with resentment and envy.
Many of us in the West feel anger and resentment toward Islam and Muslims.
Often this is justified in our minds by the anger and resentment Muslims appear to have toward the West.
'Abstractions'
But what is largely at work is what is properly termed "the fallacy of personification," in which an abstract is referred to as though it were a person.
For instance, in the Muslim world one can hear cries of "Death to America!", but what is America? What is the UK?
It is impossible for us to really pin down the concept of America or the West and point to either of them; they are abstractions that do not have any real existence.
What too is Islam or Muslims? Is there some monolithic entity we can point to and say, "There it is!"? Is Islam Muhammad Ali, one of the most loved and recognized athletes in the world?
It might behove us to learn more about this religion and its followers, especially considering the fact that we are talking about one sixth of humanity and a people who occupy a geographical area that extends from Asia to Africa latitudinally, and from Russia to South Africa longitudinally, not to mention the over 30 million Muslims living in the West.
In America alone, for example, there are over 15,000 Muslim physicians.
David Letterman, the American comedian, could say on national television, "I went to my doctor today and he said, 'Turn to Mecca and cough'" because millions of Americans would easily get the joke.
Interdependence
Our world is increasingly interdependent and pluralistic, and in order to ensure a civil future, we must get to know one another.
One of the most important ways to do this is to know what our different cultures have given to the world community.
To be aware of others' accomplishments and the indebtedness we have to so many people is to appreciate and begin to respect all members of the human family.
In a time when enmity and hatred are being exploited for personal and collective agendas, nothing is more important than eliminating the ground of hatred, and ignorance has always been the most fertile soil for the seeds of hatred.
In the case of Islam, this is especially true, and it is important that we reduce the unfortunate level of ignorance that presently exists in the West toward Islam as a religion and Muslims as a diverse people if we are to prevent hatred.
Understanding Islam
Western people can increase their understanding of Islam and Muslims in two ways.
First, we can find out about the almost unbelievable influence that Muslims have had on the progress and enhancement of life in the West.
In doing so, we will not only come to value the Muslims as a people more, but we will also come to esteem other peoples, such as the Chinese, from whom the Muslims brought so many inventions and goods to the West.
Prince Charles, for instance, made a pertinent point in a speech to the Oxford Center for Islamic Studies when he remarked that the West must learn from Islam how to integrate science and religion, an area at which the Muslims have historically proved adept.
Indeed, there is much the West can learn from the congruity of science and true religion so often mentioned in the Koran itself.
Moral obligations
The West can also learn from Islam how to deal with the problem of race.
Arnold Toynbee mentions in a prescient and compelling essay written in the 1940's the extraordinary success Islam had in remedying the race problem and declared that the West had a great deal to learn from Islam.
The Koran declares, "We have made you a plurality of races and tribes for you to know each other."
If we reflect on the animosities that exist today as a result of ignorance and stereotyping of other people, it is easy to recognize that "knowing one another" is one of the most pressing moral obligations challenging humanity today.
Martin Luther King said, "If we don't live as brothers, we will die as fools."
The human family is a great one and the Muslim branch is certainly worth
knowing.
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If you would like to take part in a BBC World Service radio programme or in a live interactive forum about Islam and the West, please include your telephone number. The following comments reflect the balance of views we have received:
I find George Bush's Christian fundamentalism as distasteful as Muslim
fundamentalism, but people do not think of Christianity in the same way. Islam
has indeed given the world much, and if I remember correctly it is the only
major religion to accept the existence of other religions without the need to
convert people. So let's all get talking.
Simon Gibbons, Luxembourg
You note that in the Muslim world one can hear cries of 'death to America'
but you offer no explanation for this consistent expression of hate from the
Islamic world.
Hugh Lippincott, Boston, USA
It strikes me that most 'progressive' Muslims ask people in the West to
understand, appreciate and study Islam. I think they should turn to their
fellow Muslims and ask to them understand, appreciate and study Western
values. I am convinced that at the moment people in the West know a lot more
about Islam than the other way around.
Urbain, Boven Karspel, NL
The faces and the weaponry may be different today but aside from that the Western and Islamic worlds are facing the same crises they were facing two thousand years ago. It does not require a sage to tell us that peace and tolerance might be in the interest of both of these powerful world forces and that both societies could gain a treasure of cultural riches by forsaking savagery as their primary tool for remedying their differences. Yet the harsh pages of contemporary history continue to be written in a river of blood and senseless violence. Will barbarism and savagery be replaced by understanding and tolerance during the brief and fluttering pages of our lifetimes? Only time will tell but four thousand years of recorded human civilization do not give us a great deal of evidence to support that notion.
Francis Copland, London, England